I composed these words composed for all ages
from the book, It Was on Fire When I Lay Down on It, by
Robert Fulghum - then the words for installation refer to the story.
Story:
I have a story today about a teacher
named Dr. Alexander Papaderos - and a Unitarian Universalist
Minister named Robert Fulghum.
Sometimes, at the end of long classes or meetings, a speaker asks if
there are any questions. Sometimes, Rev. Fulghum would ask - "What
is the meaning of life?"
You never know, he said, someone just might have the answer, and
he'd hate to miss it because he didn't ask.
Mostly, though, people would laugh, and pick up their books and
start to leave. But one time, he got a serious answer.
Alexander Papaderos was a man who had created an institute of peace
- started after the second world war to heal the hatred among the
people of Germany and Crete. There were many classes offered at his
institute - and Dr Fulghum was taking a two week class. On the last
day, Dr Papaderos said, "Are there any questions?"
Rev Fulghum asked: "What is the meaning of life?" People laughed,
and started to leave, but Dr Papaderos held up his hand and said, "I
will answer your question."
He took his wallet from his pocket, and took out a very small
mirror. What he said went like this:
"When I was a small child, during the war, we were very poor and
lived in a small village. One day, on the road, I found the broken
pieces of a mirror where a German motorcycle had crashed.
I tried to find all the pieces and put them together, but it was not
possible, so I kept the largest piece. This one. I made the edges
smooth by scratching it on a stone. I began to play with it as a toy
and became fascinated by the fact that I could reflect light into
dark places where the sun would never shine - in deep holes and
crevices and dark closets. It became a game for me to get light into
the most hidden places I could find.
I kept the little mirror, and as I grew, I would take it once in a
while and continue the game. As I became a man, I began to understand
that this was not just a child's game, but a guide for what I might
do with my life. I came to understand that I am not the light or the
source of light. But light - or truth, understanding, knowledge - is
there, and it will only shine in many dark places if I reflect it.
I am a fragment of a mirror whose whole design and shape I do not
know. Nevertheless, with what I have I can reflect light into the
dark places of this world - into the black places in the hearts of
others - and change some things in some people. Perhaps others may
see and do likewise. This is what I am about. This is the meaning of
my life.
And then he took his small mirror, and holding it carefully, caught
the rays of the sunlight through the window and reflected them onto
Dr. Fulghum's face.
Much of what Dr Fulghum learned in his class that summer faded from
his memory. But to this day, in the wallet of his mind, he still
carries a small piece of mirror.
Are there any questions?
Teacher/Advisor Dedication:
DRE: Teachers are like
fragments of a mirror whose whole design and shape we do not know.
While you are not the sourc of light itself, you will reflect the
light of truth, understanding, and knowledge into the dark places of
this world, into the unlit corners of our hearts. So we ask you now:
Will you devote yourselves to the spiritual growth of our children
and youth?
Teachers/Advisors: We covenant to do our best to guide, honor
and nurture the children and youth of this congregation. We also
welcome the opportunity for our own spiritual growth that teaching
provides.
Congregation: We are grateful to you for your willingness to
assume this responsibility. We offer our support in the shared task
of nurturing the spiritual growth of our members of all ages.
Children: We promise to come on Sundays, ready to learn and
grow. We will help to make this a place of education, fun and
friendship.
DRE: We dedicate these teachers, then as partners on our
spiritual journeys. We join you and bless you with willing hearts
and hands held in a common purpose. May you reflect the light of
truth and the warmth of love into the unlit corners of our hearts. |